how to improve your friendship

There is a saying that, “To have a friend and be a friend is what makes life worthwhile.”

Friendship is the purest feeling of this world. The person who doesn’t have a friend is the most unlucky one.  Friendship is just like a flower. A flower needs to be watered by two or more people in order to survive.

Friendship is just like that.  This is a brilliant metaphor to make you understand the value of friendship. Perhaps that flower could live for a little while being watered by only one person. Eventually   in the long run it will just wither and die. Rather than waiting for the other person to start watering the flower before you do, just jump for   the initiative and start the watering first. You may just trigger them into watering it as well saving the life of the plant.

Relationships with friends always go through testing times.  There will always be ups and downs. Sometimes they will let you down. On the contrary, sometimes you’ll let them down. If you practicing the points below you can help strengthen those bonds of friendship. You can do it in order to remove the glitches along the way. You can make the relationship smooth over more quickly.

Friendship is a very pure feeling. You should always try to improve your friendship. Read this article to know how to improve your friendship. Cherish your bonding with your friend. Never let it ruin. Take a look in the below mentioned points to know the procedures of improving a friendship.

1. Be you:

 The greatest gift you can give to your friend is being you. Be the real you. So, pull off your mask and pull on the real identity of you. Be authentic to your friends. Never try to prove something to your friend that you are not in your real life.

2. Be friendly:

Be a friendly person. Don’t be a grumpy one. Live a happy live. If you are friendly enough then your friends will always stick together. Mother was right; do you remember? You have to be a friend at first to have a friend.

3. Be giving:

Have you ever questioned yourself that what can you do for another that will make their life better? Give unconditionally. Help your friend whenever they need you. Giving will not make you unhappy. Rather it will strengthen your bonding with your friend.

4. Be encouraging:

You have to be encouraging for your friends. The kind words you have for your friends are a balm for their soul. Spread them liberally so that your friends can never feel the scarcity of encouragement.

5. Be interesting:

Cultivate yourself so you have something so that you can share it with others. Read a lot. Travel a lot and Learn from every inch of your life. Be interesting enough to attract other ones.

6. Be loyal:

 Through thick and thin, you have to be loyal to your friend. From their best moments to their worst, you have stick by your friend’s side. You have to be most loyal soul your friend has ever come through.

7.Be enriching:

 A true friend adds value to others. a true friend adds such values  by having a lifestyle of value or with some other specialties. Be enriching. Your friends will never let you go.

8.Be understanding:

It’s a very crucial point for the improvement of friendship. You have to seek first to understand your friend. you can help them understand you by doing it first.

9.Be direct:

 If misunderstandings arise then tackle them head-on with gentle honesty and modesty. Never let a disagreement fester your friendship. Such actions are capable enough to damage a friendship.

10.Be accepting:

Just because someone is different from you that  doesn’t mean you can’t find common ground in the bonding.  You will definitely find such ground on which you can  build a firm friendship. Go outside from your comfort zone to find friends.

11. Be flexible:

 People’s lives ups and sowns and so do friendships. Let it be okay to have changing degrees of closeness with your friends because it’s necessary.

12. Be available.

Our busy lives make time a very precious commodity and for this, be available to your friends. Schedule your regular time with friends so that you can stay in contact via email, text, or phone calls.

13. Be a listener:

Be a true listener to your friend. Don’t spend their talking time framing what you’re going to say next rather listen to them attentively.

14.Be fun:

 The more fun you share with others, the more fun you have your friends company. It’s literally easy to be funny. So be funny enough.

15.Be positive:

 People like to be around someone who makes them feel better, who spreads positivity. We do not like someone who poisons their time together with toxic negativity. So spread positive vibes.

16.Be honest:

 When a friend’s actions or decisions scare you then share your heart in a non-judgmental way. Be honest. Of you won’t support your friend then who would do it?

17.Be dependable.

 Don’t let your friends down. Don’t let it happen ever. Just be on your friend’s side.

18 .Be  appreciative:

 Tell your friends how much they mean to you and appreciate them wholeheartedly. You may think they already know that you appreciate them. Little you know that   a verbal affirmation from you every so often makes them overwhelm with bliss. So let it happen.

19. Be respectful:

 You and your friends may not have the same likes and dislikes. You may differ from likings in people, politics, or passions.  All you have to remember is to be respectful of these differences.

20.Be considerate:

Give your friends space. Be moderate enough to accept their time with family and other friends. You have to be considerable to your bestie.

21. Be supportive:

 Cheer friends on when they “win,” If you are a real friend then you would cry with them when they “lose,” and obviously you would laugh with them when either of you do something stupid or only laugh for pointless issues. Just be supportive to your friends.

Building a lasting friendship is not as easy as you think. If you are authentic and are willing to open yourself up to others then you will definitely find that there are many people who are looking for a good friend. So, love your friends. No matter whatever happens always try to improve your friendship. Friends are made in heaven. Never let your friend go away.

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